Monday, February 18, 2008

Romantic Simplicity

Anyone who knows me well knows I'm about as low maintenance as they come. What you may not know is that I have never been a fan of Valentine's Day. In my opinion, it's about the LEAST romantic day of the year. Let me explain.... V-Day is a day where you are expected to be romantic. That's kind of an oxymoron to me. Romance isn't in the gift giving, card exchanging, or flower sending. It's the moments that come unexpectedly. When your sweetie does something for you "just because". Those are the times when the romance shines brightest.

Besides, I have been blessed with a husband who shows his love to me every day (well most every day....no one's perfect. :)). I suppose that's a big reason that V-Day is just another day to me.

O.K. so I won't be a total pessimist regarding this day of romance. It does bring a reminder that it is important to show love to the ones you care for, and continue to build your relationship with the spouse.

Nick and I had a most wonderful evening... He bought steak and shrimp to grill. We made salad and bruchetta with fresh mozzarella, tomatoes, and basil for appetizers, and toasted the evening with a bottle of white wine. Then we watched a movie from good 'ole Blockbuster. What a fantastic way to celebrate - a quiet evening, good food, and wonderful conversation reminiscing about the day we met.... I'll choose that any day over waiting outside for 2 hours while people smoke waiting to be seated in a crowded restaurant.

Ah, I guess "they" are right...it really is the simple things in life.

Speaking of which, our college friends Josh and Rebekah T. came for a quick visit on their way to see Rebekah's parents along with their kids - two of the most adorable children I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. Ethan is all boy at 3 1/2 and loves his Thomas the Train pals. He is also quite a big eater. He got down on those chicken strips and french fries! :) Ellianna is a beautiful 11 month old little girl. Gorgeous blue eyes and a smile that could win over any one. I had the distinct pleasure of holding her during the church service this Sunday. She danced with the music, slept during the sermon, and smiled sweetly as the pastor blessed her during communion. What more could you ask for? Seriously?

The only complaint I have is that currently I have a nasty stomach virus of some sort. It's been in full swing since Friday, and it's term in office is way past due. I am able to go to work and stuff, but I'm exhausted and uncomfortable. So, I am praying that this will pass soon. I have a big week at work and school... Apparently it's going around - my boss had it, and my co-worker that sits next to me is out sick today.

Other than that, I can't complain in the least. I am truly blessed with all that I have. May the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you also!

P.S. If Nick will ever load pictures on to the computer, I will post knitting pictures as requested by Julianna. It will prove to be an explosion of yarn! I also have a couple Christmas pics as well.

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